“Why Comedy Can Help Open Up Difficult Discussions”
At a recent event someone laughed off the idea that my YA novel Murder on a School Night could possibly have any kind of serious message behind it. Whilst I admit that I can see how he got that impression – it is after all a comedy murder mystery where two teen detectives investigate a series of murders involving menstrual products – he was wrong. I actually wrote the book with a serious intention. I wanted to get people talking about periods more freely, to try and bust a taboo that I strongly believe shouldn’t exist, and to open up conversations around the things that can go wrong with periods. Especially considering we live in a time when serious and painful conditions such as endometriosis affect 1 in 10 people and yet can still take on average between 8-10 years to diagnose*. I also did it because I strongly believe that sometimes the best way to get into topics people might find hard to talk about, is with humour.
Obviously, humour isn’t always the answer. But it is one I think can often be overlooked or brushed away as frivolous when it has a great societal function. The great thing with jokes is that they unite people. Sharing a laugh with someone is a great ice breaker because it’s essentially a way of saying “Oh look we both found that funny, there’s something we have in common.” (Similarly, if you don’t laugh at a joke because you think it’s awful, you’ll probably also bond over that, albeit in a much less cheerful way.) This bond makes people feel more likely to open up.
My first book, Diary of a Confused Feminist was the comedy diary of Kat Evans, who was struggling with her mental health. To this day I still get messages from readers, parents, teachers, and librarians saying the book helped them/their student/their child, open up about their own mental health struggles, simply because it made the discussion less scary for them. That’s one of the great things that humour does, it can minimise the threat. The laughter acts like a small release valve so that conversations don’t feel so impossible or hard to navigate. And that’s also why I thought it was important to continue talking about mental health in the sequel to Murder on a School Night, Murder on a Summer Break.
In Murder on a Summer Break, the narrator Kerry has previously struggled with anxiety which she is on medication for. She also has a panic attack at one point in the book. I felt it was important to include Kerry’s anxiety and panic attacks to show a character who’s gutsy and out there solving crime, but also struggling with her mental health, because anyone can be struggling at any time. And that maybe by putting it in the context of a larger comedic novel people will see it in a context that helps them to process it in their own life or that of someone that they know.
Of course, there’s a time and a place for comedy and some people don’t respond to it. But using it to get the conversation started can relax everyone. It can show that you’re approachable, create a bond, and form the foundations of a safe space where you can address things together.
*The aforementioned man that I had the discussion with is now more than equipped to write an essay on menstruation and menstrual disorders. I felt a little sorry for him getting an unexpected presentation on periods at a drinks reception. But in the words of Shirley Jackson “If you don’t like my peaches don’t shake my tree.” And he shook my tree.
Published September 10th, 2024 by HarperCollins
About the Book: Amateur sleuths and wannabe influencers Kerry and Annie are back on the case when a social media festival inspires some killer content—and several on-camera influencer deaths—in this page-turning and sidesplitting sequel to Murder on a School Night from author and comedian Kate Weston.
After catching the menstrual murderer red-handed, Annie and Kerry are now the Tampon Two, Barbourough’s most famous—well, only—detective duo. So Annie (and decidedly not Kerry) is enjoying her five minutes of fame.
Except life in the spotlight seems to be a magnet for death these days. After a famous prankster is found dead with a condom stretched over his entire head, the Tampon Two are on the scene at their small village’s Festival of Fame to catch another killer.
Honestly, Kerry doesn’t know how she ended up here again, but this might be her one chance to prove to the folks at the local paper that she has what it takes to be a reporter—and to prove to herself that she doesn’t need her boyfriend, Scott, to save the day. Or even Annie, who definitely has stars and hearts in her eyes investigating all these influencers.
With Annie distracted, Kerry has to work quickly, before one more live stream can be cut off by yet another grisly death. And this time, the murderer might be following her—and not just on social media—in their quest to create some truly killer content.
About the Author: Kate Weston is an ex-stand-up comedian (never won any awards) and a bookseller (never won any awards at that either). She now writes books for teenagers. Her first book, Diary of a Confused Feminist, was longlisted for the CWIP Prize and nominated for the Carnegie Medal. This is her third book for teens.
Thank you, Kate, for this reminder to that humor is sometimes exactly what is needed!
