“The Best Advice is Free”
The digital revolution has irrevocably changed the world. It has given a voice to those who once suffered in silence. And even the poorest among us now have access to a wealth of information. It seems the Silicon Valley pioneers have made John Lennon’s dream a reality by giving power to the people.
Unfortunately, as history has long proved, power corrupts. According to the Pew Research Centre, fake news, misinformation, and propaganda account for 71% of online content. And every snake-oil salesman and extremist now has a platform from which to spread their lies and hate speech.
We now have a generation that receives news from social media feeds and guidance from internet celebrities. Influencers rake in millions from product endorsements, while self-proclaimed gurus sell ‘life-changing’ courses.
We’re all familiar with the proverb ‘You get what you pay for,’ which assumes a relationship between price and quality. In most cases, this idiom rings true. Except, when it comes to advice.
How many people who bought ‘How to write a bestseller?’ have gone on to accomplish this feat? If self-help worked we wouldn’t require psychiatry and the educational system. Or, the self-improvement industry! In today’s world, most guidance you pay for through clicks and credit card details is at best unhelpful. At worst, it’s downright dangerous.
The best advice you get in this life doesn’t cost a dime. Why? Because it comes from people who care. Family. Friends. Teachers. The people who are invested in your well-being. The people who sense when something is not right and want to help. The people who know you.
But how can teachers and parents hope to compete with perma-tanned influencers and their photo-shopped perfection? Is it possible to impart wisdom without hi-tech visual stimuli and ambient mood music? How do you lead pliable young minds away from the enticing mirage of misinformation?
Long before the internet turned the globe into an online community, hell, long before the printing press brought mass-produced wisdom to the public, humanity had a tried and tested way of getting their message across. Myths. Legends. Parables. Fables. Novels. From Aesop to Hemingway, those who seek to enlighten minds do so through the medium of story.
Our way of life may have radically changed with time, but the human condition remains unaltered. Holden Caulfield’s alienation and battle with mental illness still resonates with teenagers 74 years later. And, while nobody makes mix-tapes anymore, Charlie’s struggle to fit in is universal. Unfortunately, Starr Carter’s experience is all too familiar to millions of Americans.
But stories do more than teach, they offer solace. They let readers know they are not alone. Others have felt the same emotions and had similar thoughts. Moreover, books provide hope. Life can be unfair. Justice only exists in comics and superhero movies. The universe doesn’t operate on moral principles. But that doesn’t mean we can’t fight to improve society. That we can’t find meaning and fulfilment in our existence. The billions that went before us did and we can too. It’s all in the stories.
So how do you upstage a bling-dripping influencer sat poolside selling the impossible dream? Recommend a good book. How do you communicate with a kid who has shut themselves off from everyone? Leave a book on their desk.
Will they thank you? Does it matter; The best advice is given without expecting anything in return.
Publishing March 17th, 2025
About the Book: For Aaron, this world is an unfathomable puzzle. Haunted by disturbing dreams, he drifts through empty days, shielding himself behind sarcasm and cynical wit. After being expelled, he sees an opportunity to rewrite his future at a new school. Connecting over a shared love for De Niro films with Robbie, an aspiring actor of Jamaican descent, he unexpectedly finds his companion piece, one person who truly understands him. Together, they navigate the chaotic waters of adolescence, from dramatic first dates to sociopathic bullies, iconic concerts, and a dead body.
With adulthood fast approaching, the crushing weight of societal pressures and devastating revelations threaten to shatter their unique bond. Confronted by the ghosts of his past, Aaron must choose whether to blaze bright or fade away.
A funny and poignant meditation on the forces that shape us, The Drowners is an ode to that time when your tolerance for hypocrisy was zero and life seemed infinite.
About the Author: Hailing from the cold, wet streets of Dublin, David Anderson is the author of The Drowners.
Like a Hummingbird, after college, he migrated south to warmer climes. Namely, sunny Spain, where he teaches English to students who are confused by his Irish brogue. In his early thirties, he caught the writing bug.
He has written several articles for the GMS website about his other obsession in life, football. In 2021, he won a YA Watty award for his novel The Art of Breathing Underwater.
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Thank you, David, for this great advice, also free!
Thanks so much for offering me the opportunity to contribute to your wonderful blog. It was both an honor and a pleasure.